#effthis

#effthis 102 degrees in Salem

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Hey @buzzfeedtasty I made your "avocado 4 ways fudge"! Super simple and as yummy as healthy fat fudge can be! 🀘🏼 It was the perfect dessert to top off the 3 eggs, sausage, zuchnini, peanut butter toast, cinnamon banana vanilla shake, AYCE BBQ pork buffet, French fries, pork rinds, kettle corn, Pale Ales, and Beef lo mein I had today. πŸ™ŒπŸΌ Strongest I've ever been! #foodisfuel πŸ’ͺ🏼 #singlemarriedmom #fword #fwordfitness #effword #effthis #halotop #crocs #wisconsinmom #threenager
#freetobe #minimalism #secondhand #momofthree #stepmom #girlmom #nomakeup #sansmakeup #relationshiprules #multitaskingmom #boymom #workingmom #momboss #runthehouse #momster #chickenlady #chickenfamily #blendedfamily #wickedstepmom

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There's this hat that I wear, it's very important to me, as all roles I have are. I'm told I chose to love someone that I didn't have to. I'm told how it takes a special person to take on such a role. I'm told our blended family is unique because we all "get along". I'm told I'm told I'm told.... 😜

Here's my reply. It's real simple. We are not unique, we are not special, and I didn't "choose" to love a child. Choice gives me an out. I fell in love with my husband and his life. All of it. His family, my step daughter, and her mother. Adults are responsible for keeping a safe and loving environment for all children. We have our imperfections and make mistakes. Doesn't every person and every relationship? What we as co parents have in common is we love each other's children and we want the best for our blended family, as a whole! That doesn't make us special or unique. It makes us kind and responsible adults who care for one another.
If you're struggling in a blended family situation. Stop resisting. You probably don't want to hear it. But, I'll say it anyway because I know I'm right. Because I was you. Anger is a secondary emotion. You're not feeling angry, you're acting angry. You're feeling sad, disappointed, jealous, hurt. It's a hell of a way to feel. It's a crappy way to live. You certainly can't love with your whole heart feeling sad and behaving with anger. In fact our family believes you're unique and special, and we are normal!
We have some pretty awesome moments. Some we wouldn't have if we pretended to be above everyone else or acted above each other while thinking we are special or unique. ❀️ #singlemarriedmom #fword #fwordfitness #effword #effthis #halotop #crocs #wisconsinmom #threenager
#freetobe #minimalism #secondhand #momofthree #stepmom #girlmom #nomakeup #sansmakeup #relationshiprules #multitaskingmom #boymom #workingmom #momboss #runthehouse #momster #chickenlady #chickenfamily #blendedfamily #wickedstepmom

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The days when we had walkways in Beijing are all but gone... πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜” #beijing #bikehire #hirescheme #ofo #mobike #bluegogo #bike #wheredoiwalk #pathway #effthis #igers #igdaily #getyourshittogether #wtf #china #noregulation @the_beijinger @timeoutbeijing

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Week 1/52! List the things that are making you happy RIGHT now. Doneβœ”οΈ Is t this an excellent gift to receive from a friend! I'm so lucky! Here's to working my emotional health and mental health. Exercise and Nutrition are excellent fuel for my my body and mind. It is isn't a cure all however. I need work. My relationships need work. I'll need work until the day that I die. None of my health goals will ever be achieved. They are glass ceiling goals that I will work on forever. Forever! What a strong F Word! It's a good one, too. If you're looking for a quick fix to happiness whether it's your physical transformation or emotional transformation, you'll search forever. πŸ”›. I choose to work forever!

#singlemarriedmom #fword #fwordfitness #effword #effthis #halotop #crocs #wisconsinmom #threenager
#freetobe #minimalism #secondhand #momofthree #stepmom #girlmom #nomakeup #sansmakeup #relationshiprules #multitaskingmom #boymom #workingmom #momboss #runthehouse #momster #chickenlady #chickenfamily #forever #quickfix

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Pretty much! If it's in the high 80's - 90's it's way too hot for me! β˜€οΈπŸŒ‘ #summmer #weather #toohot #effthis #ohtheweatheroutsideisweather

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"Eff you, man!" πŸ’’πŸ’€βš‘
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Ryuji is another cosplay I'll be wearing at AnimeFest, since he got such good reception at A-kon!
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Fun fact, at the Persona gathering at A-kon, I squatted too aggressively and too quickly, and I ripped the crotch of my pants open. πŸ˜… Not my most shining moment, but I found it funny then, and hilarious now!
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#animefest2k17 #animefest2017 #animefest #ryujisakamoto #ryujisakamotocosplay #yusukekitagawa #yusukekitagawacosplay #persona5 #persona5cosplay #cosplay #cosplayers #akon2017 #akon2k17 #akon28 #homorules #nomorules #pridemonth #gaypride #effthis #effthat #effyou #phantomthieves #persona #atlus #atlusgames

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PAINΒ has an element of blank;
It cannot recollect
When it began, or if there were
A day when it was not.
It has no future but itself,
Its infinite realms contain
Its past, enlightened to perceive
New periods of pain. (Emily Dickinson)
This is a picture from four years ago. When my husband could still walk. He can never walk into a field like this ever again. Slowly a disease is stealing everything from him. Today I was searching desperately for an old photograph. Before smart phones and clouds we backed up our photos on hard drives. I couldn't get my old external hard drive to work. I want my old pictures to remember that once there was a man who could pick up his child, ride a bike, run, walk, cook, speak without slurring, someone who used to smile and looked forward to life. Where the hell are my pictures? I want my God damn pictures back.

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I'm over this effing heatwave 😀πŸ”₯πŸ˜– #heatwave #100degrees #melting #effthis #sohot #eastbay

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Who remembers those sheet pan garlic and lime Fajitas I made on Sunday⁉️ YUP! Still stuffin' my face! Today is a fajita bowl. Tomorrow might be a fajita 🍳 egg scramble. The options are endless. Much like my hunger. πŸ‘©πŸ»β€βš–οΈVerdict is in, I'll probably join Halo Top's staff team and own a Latin restaurant on the side.
#singlemarriedmom #fword #fwordfitness #effword #effthis #halotop #crocs #wisconsinmom #threenager
#freetobe #minimalism #secondhand #momofthree #stepmom #girlmom #nomakeup #sansmakeup #relationshiprules #multitaskingmom #boymom #workingmom #momboss #runthehouse #momster #chickenlady #chickenfamily #goals #bowlgoals #businessgoals #bossladymindset

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When the bundles catch wind...can't tell me shiiiiiiiii πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ #catchwind #bundles #hotaf #acblowinsnowtho #effthis #outsideisclosed #imcutetho #onfire #hot

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How I feel after being off for 3 days and now back on a night shift 😝 #firstworldprobs #reallife #effthis #latenights #earliermornings #medicine #PA #PhysicanAssistant #googleit #beforeyouaskmewhatitis #πŸ˜‚

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When daddy leaves for the week and forgets his giant eclair behind...... Mommy and monsters take full advantage! Happy Father's Day to us!πŸ‘©β€πŸ‘§β€πŸ‘¦#singlemarriedmom #fword #fwordfitness #effword #effthis #halotop #crocs #wisconsinmom #threenager
#freetobe #minimalism #secondhand #momofthree #stepmom #girlmom #nomakeup #sansmakeup #relationshiprules #multitaskingmom #boymom #workingmom #momboss #runthehouse #momster #chickenlady #chickenfamily

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Despite their mothers inability to boil eggs, the kids are still excited about finally finding eggs in the coop! 6:30a.m. She was dressed and outside talking to the ladies!
#singlemarriedmom #fword #fwordfitness #effword #effthis #halotop #crocs #wisconsinmom #threenager
#freetobe #minimalism #secondhand #momofthree #stepmom #girlmom #nomakeup #sansmakeup #relationshiprules #multitaskingmom #boymom #workingmom #momboss #runthehouse #momster #chickenlady #chickenfamily

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"It's not always rainbows and butterflies. Its compromise that moves us along."🎢 I'm in a slump. I'm feeling resistance from the world.. Yesterday was rough. Felt negative. Talked negatively. It was a gloomy day. πŸ‘ŽπŸΌ This happens to me at least once per month. Weird right? 😝A woman has a reoccurring monthly occurrence of feeling like shit while standing in front of the refrigerator, eating a chocolate eClair and bowl of pasta salad, still searching for a snack. 😳

Today I went back to the last time I felt on top of the world. That was last week Thursday. I was sweating. I was having awesome conversations with πŸ‘©πŸ»women, that were positive and goal oriented. I wasn't eating chips and cheese like it was the last day on EarthπŸ˜‚. 😘 I'll sweat it out.
😘 I'll talk it out.
😘 I'll read it out.

I know I can't let this slump win. I work too damn hard to let emotions overcome my progress. Too damn hard.
#singlemarriedmom #fword #fwordfitness #effword #effthis #halotop #crocs #wisconsinmom #threenager
#freetobe #minimalism #secondhand #momofthree #stepmom #girlmom #nomakeup #sansmakeup #relationshiprules #multitaskingmom #boymom #workingmom #momboss #runthehouse #momster #chickenlady #chickenfamily

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I love family outtakes! Picture perfect is for the birds! We love the candid captures. .......Except my 5 year old who poses as soon as her eyes see a cell phone.😍 #singlemarriedmom #fword #fwordfitness #effword #effthis #halotop #crocs #wisconsinmom #threenager
#freetobe #minimalism #secondhand #momofthree #stepmom #girlmom #nomakeup #sansmakeup #relationshiprules #multitaskingmom #boymom #workingmom #momboss #runthehouse #momster #chickenlady #chickenfamily

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Right on 🀘 #effthis
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Correction: it is now saying 121! πŸ˜‘ #arizonainjune

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Someone send water please. πŸ”₯😩
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#melting #itstoodamnhot #hell #imhere #vegas #sincity #desert #effthis #chubrub

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I've been pretty radio silent these days and for good reason...I've been working on a top-secret badass, empowering and in-your-face project with the amazing @jennateague πŸ’–πŸ’–
This pic is a little hint into what is launching tomorrow on the Summer Solstice!! Keep your eyes peeled peeps!! πŸ‘€πŸ–•πŸ»πŸ‘€πŸ–•πŸ»
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I guess EVERY red-blooded American guy wants to be skinny. Too bad these jeans can't fit around my legs without them acting as a tourniquet. LOL!!

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